Must Read: 100 women reveal what actually makes a guy really good sex partner

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Must Read: 100 women reveal what actually makes a guy really good sex partner

When it comes to being good in bed, not a lot of guys know what to do the right way. This is why 100 women, ages 19 to 50, reveal what actually makes a man good sex partner.

So learn how to make love like a champ and have a very happy life (that will hopefully lead to a happy wife).


Engage in foreplay. A whopping 86 percent of women said it’s very important that man engaged in foreplay. So stop skipping this step!

“Go down on us.” You guys do it infrequently. Which is unfortunate, because women actually want you to: 82 percent of respondents said it’s very important.

Be in good physical shape. 90 percent of women said it’s very important that you have enough stamina and energy to not get tired too easily in bed. But “good physical shape” doesn’t mean that you need to have a six-pack. It just means you don’t have to get up for a water break every five minutes. It is not sexy.

Take control and spice things up. Women want men to dominate them and keep the experience interesting: 96 percent of women said it’s very important that you take control in bed, and 86 percent of women said it’s very important that you have sex in positions that aren’t missionary.

Be a little rough. Feel free to be a little rough. To 75 percent of women it is very important, so things like hair-pulling, mild slapping and the like is OK. Note that it should be done lightly. Be careful with dirty talk. Over a half of women (53 percent) said it’s not important. So maybe err on the side of caution and don’t say dirty things.

Make your woman an orgasm. 73 percent of respondents said it’s very important that men make them orgasms. But know when to stop trying if an orgasm is just not going to happen. Vaginas are fickle. They’re not as easy to work with as penises are.

Which means even if you do every single thing on this list and you do it right, an orgasm may not happen anyway. Cuddle after. A few women in their open-ended responses said that the “post-sex interaction” is vital. Cliché, yes, but true.

One woman stressed the importance of also knowing when to leave her alone when the cuddling is over. So be in sync with that as well. Listen to feedback. 84 percent of women said it’s very important that you adjust your actions according to women’s feedback, whether that feedback is verbal or non-verbal (via our physical responses or our body language).